rgeere
Master Don Juan
This chick would be classy if she wasn't so sarcastic ....
http://okcupid.com/profile?tuid=3476209667812050719
http://okcupid.com/profile?tuid=3476209667812050719
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Totally the worst personal I have seen, ever!
- Thread starter rgeere
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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No, no she wouldn't.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Not even close to classy, or hot for that matter. By the way, rge.. you've been around long enough to know that this isn't a secondary forum on which to discuss how hot or classy a chick that you saw on an internet rating/dating site is...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I don't really find her all that hot, either. I just don't really think it does her justice that she made a personal that was so intentionally horrible with the disgusting sarcasm. Of course, the sarcasm is a defense mechanism because she doesn't see herself as attractive [and that could be reinforced through others].
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That chick got issues and problems. When I see someone making a face on a personal picture its a turn off especially when they stick fries up their nose. Her profile is a total joke and I bet it is out of desperation.
Check out this attension wh0re profile I found.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=9739988241163222536
"I got onto this site to see how many guys would message me (and my friends made me sign up). After all, I LOVE the attention."
Her profile says it all. This is the kind of chick that most guys would want to fvck, she probably already has illegitimate kids running around.
Check out this attension wh0re profile I found.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=9739988241163222536
"I got onto this site to see how many guys would message me (and my friends made me sign up). After all, I LOVE the attention.
"Her profile says it all. This is the kind of chick that most guys would want to fvck, she probably already has illegitimate kids running around.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Man, they both have problems ...
Notice how it only shows her boobs ... How are we suppose to know what she really looks like?
Notice how it only shows her boobs ... How are we suppose to know what she really looks like?
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yah, she looks sort of like a girl that use to be somewhat sweet on me a few years ago, especially in the facial area.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.