"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Totally killed my attraction for her

redspicyflag

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So here's the lowdown my DJ compadres. Today I made a valiant effort to ask

this girl I liked to homecoming in a cute way.

Afterwards, I felt nothing for her.

Wow Isn't that weird?

And I think it's mutual, her body lang is cold towards me and she still hasn't

said yes or no, but I'm taking it as a no.

Anybody have/had the same issue?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CarbonFX

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Holy 5hit lol I had kind of the same issue, I didn't feel that much of an attraction toward her, at least not AS high as prior to the asking. Otherwise everything is in check... so far... lol
 

hyphy101

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Dude. Same thing here, weird isn't it? I already had homecoming, and I went with this fine ass chick, had some fun, but afterwards I was completely indifferent. This is a little strange that all 3 of us have such a similar situation. Although, honestly she acted kinda insecure the whole time I was with her. (major turnoff) so that might be why. But otherwise...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CarbonFX

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Yeah, I think that once we can conquer the issue we realize the potential that we had and it makes this look insignificant. Not sure if anyone will understand that, I guess what I'm trying to say is it becomes one of those 'been there done that' types of situations.
 
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