"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Totally killed my attraction for her

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So here's the lowdown my DJ compadres. Today I made a valiant effort to ask

this girl I liked to homecoming in a cute way.

Afterwards, I felt nothing for her.

Wow Isn't that weird?

And I think it's mutual, her body lang is cold towards me and she still hasn't

said yes or no, but I'm taking it as a no.

Anybody have/had the same issue?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Holy 5hit lol I had kind of the same issue, I didn't feel that much of an attraction toward her, at least not AS high as prior to the asking. Otherwise everything is in check... so far... lol
 
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Dude. Same thing here, weird isn't it? I already had homecoming, and I went with this fine ass chick, had some fun, but afterwards I was completely indifferent. This is a little strange that all 3 of us have such a similar situation. Although, honestly she acted kinda insecure the whole time I was with her. (major turnoff) so that might be why. But otherwise...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, I think that once we can conquer the issue we realize the potential that we had and it makes this look insignificant. Not sure if anyone will understand that, I guess what I'm trying to say is it becomes one of those 'been there done that' types of situations.
 
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