"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Totally killed my attraction for her

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So here's the lowdown my DJ compadres. Today I made a valiant effort to ask

this girl I liked to homecoming in a cute way.

Afterwards, I felt nothing for her.

Wow Isn't that weird?

And I think it's mutual, her body lang is cold towards me and she still hasn't

said yes or no, but I'm taking it as a no.

Anybody have/had the same issue?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Holy 5hit lol I had kind of the same issue, I didn't feel that much of an attraction toward her, at least not AS high as prior to the asking. Otherwise everything is in check... so far... lol
 
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Dude. Same thing here, weird isn't it? I already had homecoming, and I went with this fine ass chick, had some fun, but afterwards I was completely indifferent. This is a little strange that all 3 of us have such a similar situation. Although, honestly she acted kinda insecure the whole time I was with her. (major turnoff) so that might be why. But otherwise...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, I think that once we can conquer the issue we realize the potential that we had and it makes this look insignificant. Not sure if anyone will understand that, I guess what I'm trying to say is it becomes one of those 'been there done that' types of situations.
 
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