"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Toronto is an AWESOME city for dating

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Lol.

No but seriously. If you want hot undergrads (and grad students) just join a bunch of university clubs where you do charity work. There are a ton of these kinds of clubs at any university. They are undemanding and give you plenty of time to converse with girls. You don't have to be a student to join.

Although I'd rec. you go with York/Ryerson if you don't like Asian girls, which UofT has a lot of.

My 2c.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well yeah, you have 20000 females on campus of young age.
 

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Student at UofT here -

There are PLENTY of hot girls around campus, you just have to talk to people and be social, opens up so many doors... There's 7 different "colleges" around, so you can just move your way around without worrying that you'll ***** up, because there's so many different social circles you can get introduced to. If you integrate into the social scene here, dominating is easy enough and people are generally friendly.

Joining university clubs is actually a really great idea, good way to make friends with similar interests, and at the same time filter potential women out.
 

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Everyone in the GTA knows that if you're into girls/dating, York is where it is at.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looks like it sucks all over Canada?! I am a UBC grad, it sucks and all the hot hoes are in the ski/board club.
 

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UofT has a somewhat decent amount of attractive girls (although most tend to be Asian). Yeah I attend UofT. York and Ryerson should have plenty of attractive girls (if you want white girls).

Anyways, the entire point is to stop going to bars/nightclubs to pick up chicks and try out new places (like university clubs), which I think will broaden your horizons.
 

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sighsigh said:
UofT has a decent amount of attractive girls (although most tend to be Asian). Yeah I attend UofT. York and Ryerson should have plenty of attractive girls (if you want white girls).

Anyways, the entire point is to stop going to bars/clubs to pick up chicks and try out new places (like university clubs), which I think will broaden your horizons.
The issues with dating in Toronto is a commentary about the women of Toronto. It is irrespective of the venue. Mentality is mentality. It doesn't matter whether it is in a Tim Hortons, a Starbucks, at a club, or wherever.
 
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