"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Toronto is an AWESOME city for dating

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Lol.

No but seriously. If you want hot undergrads (and grad students) just join a bunch of university clubs where you do charity work. There are a ton of these kinds of clubs at any university. They are undemanding and give you plenty of time to converse with girls. You don't have to be a student to join.

Although I'd rec. you go with York/Ryerson if you don't like Asian girls, which UofT has a lot of.

My 2c.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well yeah, you have 20000 females on campus of young age.
 

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Student at UofT here -

There are PLENTY of hot girls around campus, you just have to talk to people and be social, opens up so many doors... There's 7 different "colleges" around, so you can just move your way around without worrying that you'll ***** up, because there's so many different social circles you can get introduced to. If you integrate into the social scene here, dominating is easy enough and people are generally friendly.

Joining university clubs is actually a really great idea, good way to make friends with similar interests, and at the same time filter potential women out.
 

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Everyone in the GTA knows that if you're into girls/dating, York is where it is at.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looks like it sucks all over Canada?! I am a UBC grad, it sucks and all the hot hoes are in the ski/board club.
 

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UofT has a somewhat decent amount of attractive girls (although most tend to be Asian). Yeah I attend UofT. York and Ryerson should have plenty of attractive girls (if you want white girls).

Anyways, the entire point is to stop going to bars/nightclubs to pick up chicks and try out new places (like university clubs), which I think will broaden your horizons.
 

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sighsigh said:
UofT has a decent amount of attractive girls (although most tend to be Asian). Yeah I attend UofT. York and Ryerson should have plenty of attractive girls (if you want white girls).

Anyways, the entire point is to stop going to bars/clubs to pick up chicks and try out new places (like university clubs), which I think will broaden your horizons.
The issues with dating in Toronto is a commentary about the women of Toronto. It is irrespective of the venue. Mentality is mentality. It doesn't matter whether it is in a Tim Hortons, a Starbucks, at a club, or wherever.
 
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