Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Top Ten reasons why MEN cheat.

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Got this off a female website, which they came up with that these maybe the top ten reasons why us (Men) may cheat....

1. One group of men that cheat are the ones whose sexual advances are met with, “No, not here. Not now. You’ll wake the kids. Is that all you ever think about?”

2. The sexual frequency has dropped off. Wants more sex or more variety.

3. He likes the thrill of the chase.

4. Not ready to commit.

5. Was out of town – an opportunity to have sex without getting caught.

6. Drank too much.

7. Ran into old flame.

8. Had a chance at a threesome.

9. Ran into an older, more experienced lady. Wanted to experiment.

10. Ran into a younger, sexy lady.

So I guess if you don't want to look like a cheater with your lady, then don't do any of these...I don't know if I exactly agree w/ number 3 but if you agree/disagree with any of these, then post up...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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actually those are not reasons those are just excuses ...
the reason people cheat is because they choose to.
why they choose to differs from one person to the next but the fact remains that they do it because they want to.
 

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Women are statistically just as/more likely to cheat. Can't recall which.
 

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Yeah they left out revenge for being cheated on. And some of the reasons are the same to pad it out.

11. Ran into a red-head and wanted to experiment.

12. Ran into someone called Susan and wanted to experiment.

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also forgot to add

13. Because men are built for more than one woman, and can have more than on kid at a time


In a survey on marriages: a slightly higher percentage of men (60%) admitted to cheating on their wives, again, slightly higher than women (55%) admitting to cheating on their husbands. The MOST STARTLING figure of all though, is that of the women who admitted it, 90% felt justified in doing so. Just imagine how many women DIDN'T admit it because they were ashamed of it... it would most likely put that (55%) a huge steroid-like boost in size.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That is startling while interesting statistics.
and I had a hard time in believing that women are just as inclined to cheat as men until I saw one of my best friends get cheat on by his girl in a LTR w/ a guy that she barely knew....
 

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Women cheat way more than men because they have way more to choose from. Just gotta have a pvssy to get a guy. A guy has to do much more than own a d1ck to get laid and so will usually stick with what he has. Always remember this.

The only thing going with a guy is, once he has a girlfriend most girls will want him to cheat with them.
 

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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
In a survey on marriages: a slightly higher percentage of men (60%) admitted to cheating on their wives, again, slightly higher than women (55%) admitting to cheating on their husbands. The MOST STARTLING figure of all though, is that of the women who admitted it, 90% felt justified in doing so. Just imagine how many women DIDN'T admit it because they were ashamed of it... it would most likely put that (55%) a huge steroid-like boost in size.

This is the reason that I say that LTR's and marriage is the ULTIMATE test of a DJ.

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seriously, all dudes want to cheat...and should...well most do...who cares...

too be honest...since the inception of birth control, girls have gotten sluttier and easier, decade by decade, who the hell wants a girlfriend or to be married, boooring.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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