"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Top Ten reasons why MEN cheat.

DJ1234

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Got this off a female website, which they came up with that these maybe the top ten reasons why us (Men) may cheat....

1. One group of men that cheat are the ones whose sexual advances are met with, “No, not here. Not now. You’ll wake the kids. Is that all you ever think about?”

2. The sexual frequency has dropped off. Wants more sex or more variety.

3. He likes the thrill of the chase.

4. Not ready to commit.

5. Was out of town – an opportunity to have sex without getting caught.

6. Drank too much.

7. Ran into old flame.

8. Had a chance at a threesome.

9. Ran into an older, more experienced lady. Wanted to experiment.

10. Ran into a younger, sexy lady.

So I guess if you don't want to look like a cheater with your lady, then don't do any of these...I don't know if I exactly agree w/ number 3 but if you agree/disagree with any of these, then post up...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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actually those are not reasons those are just excuses ...
the reason people cheat is because they choose to.
why they choose to differs from one person to the next but the fact remains that they do it because they want to.
 

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Women are statistically just as/more likely to cheat. Can't recall which.
 

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Yeah they left out revenge for being cheated on. And some of the reasons are the same to pad it out.

11. Ran into a red-head and wanted to experiment.

12. Ran into someone called Susan and wanted to experiment.

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also forgot to add

13. Because men are built for more than one woman, and can have more than on kid at a time


In a survey on marriages: a slightly higher percentage of men (60%) admitted to cheating on their wives, again, slightly higher than women (55%) admitting to cheating on their husbands. The MOST STARTLING figure of all though, is that of the women who admitted it, 90% felt justified in doing so. Just imagine how many women DIDN'T admit it because they were ashamed of it... it would most likely put that (55%) a huge steroid-like boost in size.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That is startling while interesting statistics.
and I had a hard time in believing that women are just as inclined to cheat as men until I saw one of my best friends get cheat on by his girl in a LTR w/ a guy that she barely knew....
 

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Women cheat way more than men because they have way more to choose from. Just gotta have a pvssy to get a guy. A guy has to do much more than own a d1ck to get laid and so will usually stick with what he has. Always remember this.

The only thing going with a guy is, once he has a girlfriend most girls will want him to cheat with them.
 

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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
In a survey on marriages: a slightly higher percentage of men (60%) admitted to cheating on their wives, again, slightly higher than women (55%) admitting to cheating on their husbands. The MOST STARTLING figure of all though, is that of the women who admitted it, 90% felt justified in doing so. Just imagine how many women DIDN'T admit it because they were ashamed of it... it would most likely put that (55%) a huge steroid-like boost in size.

This is the reason that I say that LTR's and marriage is the ULTIMATE test of a DJ.

comic_relief
 

bustingducks4

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seriously, all dudes want to cheat...and should...well most do...who cares...

too be honest...since the inception of birth control, girls have gotten sluttier and easier, decade by decade, who the hell wants a girlfriend or to be married, boooring.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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