Top 5 signs of high interest and low interest

[lizardking82]

I am curious what each member rates, in their books, as top 5 signs of high interest and also of low interest from a girl.

 

[RangerMIke]

IOI
1. Eye contact.
2. Nervous behavior.
3. Appears to be interested in what you say.
4. Works to keep your attention.
5. Touching

Low Interest -- Pretty much the opposite of above.
1. Looks around the room not at you.
2. Disinterested behavior.
3. Not paying attention to what you say, not asking questions.
4. Plays with her phone, Easily distracted.
5. Some chicks just don't touch. If she isn't touching you doesn't really mean anything. But if you is giving you negative BL, (Arms crossed, turning away from you) is low interest.

 

[bigneil]

High interest

1) She remembers you (later in the romance, she remembers intimate details of events long passed and tells you secrets about how she felt at the time).
2) She touches you (later in the romance, she spoons you when you are asleep).
3) She initiates contact (later in the romance, she asks you out or asks for sex).
4) She responds to the romance (later in the romance, she sends really long texts, says she is excited, sends red hearts and uses the word love a lot).
5) She eagerly agrees to your advances (whether it be the first kiss, first date, first sexual encounter or first vacation plans)

Low interest

5) She gets angry quickly (before sex).
4) She won't hold eye contact.
3) She doesn't have sex by the third date (or starts rationing sex).
2) She doesn't reply to your texts, or if so, you can't get any momentum.
1) You just have that gut instinct that she doesn't like you anymore (if she ever did).

 

[resilient]

High interest

1. Wants to do just about anything/everything you're in the mood for.
2. Doesn't flake, gets back to you a timely manner in communicating next dates, generally texts first and often (love bombing).
3. Talks about future plans, marriage/house/kids/international vacations.
4. You've meet her friends/family. She brags about you to them a lot. Posts pics of you both on social media.
5. Asks you for exclusivity, main plate status, drops orbiters/exes.

Low interest

1. Subtly or not subtly drops names of guys that hit on her or that are interested in her.
2. Starts having more frequent "girls night out" or "'Jenny' wants to catch up, she just broke up with her b/f and needs my support, blah, blah"
3. Too much alone time at home/apt/condo. I.e. watches her own shows/movies/plays MMOs. Rarely cooks for you, asks for you to get take out more often.
   1. Doesn't look you in the eye.
   2. Doesn't take interest in your conversations, friends, hobbies, work/school progress.
   3. No playful touching.
   4. No smiling or laughing.
   5. Moody, indifferent, cold and distant.
   6. Passive aggressive / dismissive comments.
4. Constantly on her phone using social media to post pics of selfies to get attention, or uses other chat apps to talk to strangers (not necessarily dating apps).
5. Makes excuses when you try to seduce her ("Oh... honey... not tonight. I have a killer migrane") With no counteroffer.

 

[AttackFormation]

IOI
1. Eye contact.
2. Nervous behavior.
3. Appears to be interested in what you say.
4. Works to keep your attention.
5. Touching

Low Interest -- Pretty much the opposite of above.
1. Looks around the room not at you.
2. Disinterested behavior.
3. Not paying attention to what you say, not asking questions.
4. Plays with her phone, Easily distracted.
5. Some chicks just don't touch. If she isn't touching you doesn't really mean anything. But if you is giving you negative BL, (Arms crossed, turning away from you) is low interest.

Pretty much /thread right there, this is the essential list imo.

Low Initial:

5. Online dating user

Good one bro.

 

[Urbanyst]

I would say availability, nervousness and respect.

 

[Poon King]

High Interest = Submission

Low Interest = Indifference (lack of emotional engagement)

That's all you need to know.

 

[lizardking82]

High Interest = Submission

Low Interest = Indifference (lack of emotional engagement)

That's all you need to know.

Loved how simple you made it. Thanks

 

[dude99]

High Interest = Submission

Low Interest = Indifference (lack of emotional engagement)

That's all you need to know.

You Beat me to it. I was going to say

High interest- she follows your lead.

Low interest- she creates excuses and obsticles.

 

[Tenacity]

I am curious what each member rates, in their books, as top 5 signs of high interest and also of low interest from a girl.

I personally don't go based on any type of measurement like this because women have different personalities and based on said personalities, a lot of times a girl could be interested but coming off uninterested....and vice versa.

For example, some women always have this natural "mean/pissed off" look on their faces and for many guys, that could come off like she's not interested.

So how do I judge a woman's interest or non-interest? It's based solely on if I'm able to keep things moving forward and moving along. Basically, am I able to communicate with her, am I able to flirt with her, am I able to get sexual with her, am I able to spend time with her, etc.

If I'm able to do that, then that's all that matters. The rest of the things these other guys listed like eye contact, smiling, the amount of shyt tests, etc., etc., to me all of these things depend upon the personality of the woman. I personally would NOT use those things as barometers for interest.

 

[SuckItUp]

HIL
1. You're not confused.

LIL
1. You're confused

 

[Krueg]

I would pay more attention to the NEGATIVES, they're more reliable signs

 

[devilkingx2]

IOI
1. Eye contact.
2. Nervous behavior.
3. Appears to be interested in what you say.
4. Works to keep your attention.
5. Touching

Low Interest -- Pretty much the opposite of above.
1. Looks around the room not at you.
2. Disinterested behavior.
3. Not paying attention to what you say, not asking questions.
4. Plays with her phone, Easily distracted.
5. Some chicks just don't touch. If she isn't touching you doesn't really mean anything. But if you is giving you negative BL, (Arms crossed, turning away from you) is low interest.

best post in the thread imo (because most of the others focus on girls you're already dating)

I feel like if you have to wonder how interested the girl you're dating is, then you're in one hell of a weird (and most likely not a good) situation

 

[hockeyfreak79]

For example, some women always have this natural "mean/pissed off" look on their faces and for many guys, that could come off like she's not interested.

Ahh yes that would be the good ole "resting bvtch face". That use to be my favorite look, it was a challenge for me put a smile on the RBF.

And then after cycling through some of them I realized it's the result of being extremely jaded and having loads of baggage. The smiling happy face is much more enjoyable.

 

[wifehunter]

Hi interest: want to have your baby

Low interest: is to busy, and need to wash hair or do laundry.