TOP 3 Things that give you confidence?

[daniel26]

what are the top 3 things.actions(whatever) that give you confidence?

 

[rgeere]

It would have been nice if you had listed some yourself. I mostly never think about this because I naturally feel confident.

Some general things

* How I view myself
* How competent I feel
* How secure I am in my life

 

[daniel26]

I would list them, but lately i feel pretty unconfident for various reasons

 

[Seeph]

1) my state of mind
2) my state of mind
3) my state of mind

You have it backwards bro, actions dont give confidence.. when you do an action and OTHER PEOPLE respond well to it isn't confidence.. it is a false sense of reality.. yea it makes you feel good when you get good responses from people.. but your confidence comes from your state of mind and the energy you project in the way you talk & act and how you interact with people on a daily basis.

Start reading the bible and searching.

 

[Maxtro]

I can list three why I'm unconfident but that’s too easy.

Hmm…Things that give me confidence.

1. Very slightly above average computer skills.
2. ?
3. ?

State of mind is a very hard thing to change.

 

[Skweints]

He is right. It's all about state of mind.

It's kind of a vicious circle too. When you're not confident in the things you're doing, you're going to fail at them. If you fail at them, you lose confidence.

That's where mindset comes in. If you can develope the mindset to be confident, even if for only 20 or so minutes, and accomplish something successfully, you'll become MORE confident.

Basically, more confident you are in succeeding, the more you will. The less confident you are succeeding, the less you're actually going to succeed.

It's mind games, baby.

 

[SDBmania]

Ooh this is a tuff one.

Let's see:

1) "I kick ass!" I tell myself this quite often. It makes me feel like I can do whatever I want. Arrogant? A bit, but it sure beats when I used to think, "I'm a bid loser."

2) "I don't care what other people think about me." This is an important one. I define myself from with in, not from what other's say. I use what positive things people say about me, but most of my confidence comes from inside.

3) "God loves me." Ok, so my religion is helpful in my confidence, so sue me. God created me and loves me. So, what else is important? I love me, ok that too. Anything else? No. God and I am my biggest supporters. If you have that, you need nothing else.

Anyway, those are the sources of my power.

 

[AFCinBC]

#1 I feel my silk shirt.
#2 I feel my silk pants.
#3 I feel my felt pimp hat.
I just look around at everyone else, and laugh.

 

[Le Parisien]

1) my looks
2) my money
3) my d*ck size

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Ok ok more seriously, you are confident or you are not, you can not just enumerate three things and "make" yourself confident.
It's like asking what are the top 3 things that would make you intelligent.

 

[chicksrock]

This is ridiculous.
confidence is subjective for anyone.
Yes you haven't paid DJ Bible enough attention.

True confidence comes when you find good things about you and you like yourself ...and you are most comfortable being yourself..and you wouldn't change yourself for anything in this world

 

[Sardaukar]

Three things that affect my inner state

1) Knowing beyond doubt that I look GOOOOOD.
2) Knowing that I have the competence to handle ANYTHING that comes my way.
3) Exercising that competence to the level that I'm in "Flow" and having an excellent time.

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Watch Rid****. Be the man.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by AFCinBC
#1 I feel my silk shirt.
#2 I feel my silk pants.
#3 I feel my felt pimp hat.
I just look around at everyone else, and laugh.

haha, nice.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Hey GoldenBoy what happens if something bad happens to you and your "GOOD LOOKS" are taken away from you?


Would you lose all your confidence?

As for saying words to yourself.

Thats all great and can help but-----

lets take basketball.

You keep saying, "I"M GREAT" over and over yet rarely practice free throws.

It doesn't matter how much you say to yourself, if you dont practice, you aren't gonna be very good at making free throws.

Words can be powerful.

But words are useless without action.

If you go out thinking, "I"M GREAT" but dont talk to any girls at a club, what's the point.

yeah your great, who cares.

As i said, words can help you, but if you dont practice and actually do the things you think and want, words wont mean a thing.

 

[SDBmania]

YEAH!

elvis aint dead yet, you are correct. But, saying good words to yourself is just the first step. Once you have cleaned out all the crap you say to yourself and replace them with positive stuff, then you can go out there and strut your stuff and start living. Then you can get out there, and this is not just used for dating. It's used for anything in life that you wish to succseed at.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

1.) i think of all that i have achieved so far in the "short" time ive been alive.

2.) i listen to music which send out a positive vibe and puts me on DJ mode.

3.) i go out and play soccer. taekwondo and aikido too in a touch of security.

 

[b's nuts]

1 - Getting laid. If you have recently scored some tang, thats a huge confidence boost.

2 - Working out. Your not afraid to look anyone in the eyes if your feeling healthy and strong, especially strong, you also just begin to irradiate confidence.

3 - Sports. Playing sports can definately help give you confidence, especially if you just won a game, tournement, match, no matter what your sport is.

No confidence? Here is a little tip from the best movie ever made, boiler room. Act as if. Act as if you have a 12 inch c0ck. Act is if you are the big swinging **** of the world. Act as if you have all the skills to pay the bills, whatever- - just act as if.

 

[SealTeamSix]

My current confidance factor:

1) Surrounded by friends (knowing that I have nice 'home base', I can perform lot better when i decide to PU)

2) GQ Styling.

3) My physique


Here is where I want to be:

State of mind: when I want to be confident (hide my fears) I can .. or getting into that 'zone' whenever i desire ..

 

[SDBmania]

External things can boost your confidence, but if your confidence is based on internal factors, then you build build more confidence. Also, if external events happen in the negitive, you won't feel a hit to your self-esteem.