zekko said:
Why is this question ALWAYS asked as a qualifying question in every seduction book I've ever seen? Is it that important really? I'm not entirely sure what it means, should she have made a summit bid on Everest before you agree to go out with her?
I don't think I've ever met a woman who WASN'T a social person. Weird question.
Actions, not words.
Answer #1: probably because it sets up a positive self image for the girl to live up to. An adventurous girl, for instance, may have sex with you on the first date or give you a bj in a public bathroom.
Answer #2: asking a girl if she is social is not weird it's smart if you use it as a warm up to more personal qualification questions. For example you just met someone you're not exactly gonna ask right off if she's good in bed or why you should like her. She won't care to answer you. But if you ask her a simple question like "are you social?" then she is more likely to say YES because most girls are social. Whether she knows it or not, she just opened up to you. Now it's easier for her to share more information with you about herself because she has already told you something about her. The more she shares with you the more connected she feels to you. And because you'll seem to be sizing her up (now this is weird) she'll want to answer your questions because as human beings we want to prove to others that we are worthy, cool, or whatever it is that she wants to be. Women especially since in our society they may feel they need to prove themselves more than men. Of course I'm generalizing but this is just my take on the topic.