"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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top 3 qualifiers

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If you're good with women or well read with seduction related materials, then you know about qualifying women. Share your top 3 qualification questions. Here are my top 3:

> are you adventurous?
> are you a social person?
> are you good in bed?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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>anal?
>no?
>taxi?
 

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1. Does she think for herself (vs. just following the herd)

2. Is she open to new things (vs. being set in her ways)

3. Is she assertive enough to take care of herself when I’m not in the room

Those are the big three.

Sex is irrelevant to me. I can teach her anything she doesn’t know.
 

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> are you adventurous?
Why is this question ALWAYS asked as a qualifying question in every seduction book I've ever seen? Is it that important really? I'm not entirely sure what it means, should she have made a summit bid on Everest before you agree to go out with her?

> are you a social person?
I don't think I've ever met a woman who WASN'T a social person. Weird question.

> are you good in bed?
Actions, not words.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nexus Polaris said:
1. Does she think for herself (vs. just following the herd)

2. Is she open to new things (vs. being set in her ways)

3. Is she assertive enough to take care of herself when I’m not in the room

Those are the big three.

Sex is irrelevant to me. I can teach her anything she doesn’t know.

very good questions. They're going in my collection. Thanks and more success to you.
 

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zekko said:
Why is this question ALWAYS asked as a qualifying question in every seduction book I've ever seen? Is it that important really? I'm not entirely sure what it means, should she have made a summit bid on Everest before you agree to go out with her?
I think that the question," Are you adventurous ?" is an enquiry in regard to the girls' wilingness to step outside her comfort zone and be a little spontaneous and experimental .
 

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zekko said:
Why is this question ALWAYS asked as a qualifying question in every seduction book I've ever seen? Is it that important really? I'm not entirely sure what it means, should she have made a summit bid on Everest before you agree to go out with her?


I don't think I've ever met a woman who WASN'T a social person. Weird question.


Actions, not words.

Answer #1: probably because it sets up a positive self image for the girl to live up to. An adventurous girl, for instance, may have sex with you on the first date or give you a bj in a public bathroom.


Answer #2: asking a girl if she is social is not weird it's smart if you use it as a warm up to more personal qualification questions. For example you just met someone you're not exactly gonna ask right off if she's good in bed or why you should like her. She won't care to answer you. But if you ask her a simple question like "are you social?" then she is more likely to say YES because most girls are social. Whether she knows it or not, she just opened up to you. Now it's easier for her to share more information with you about herself because she has already told you something about her. The more she shares with you the more connected she feels to you. And because you'll seem to be sizing her up (now this is weird) she'll want to answer your questions because as human beings we want to prove to others that we are worthy, cool, or whatever it is that she wants to be. Women especially since in our society they may feel they need to prove themselves more than men. Of course I'm generalizing but this is just my take on the topic.
 

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jophil28 said:
I think that the question," Are you adventurous ?" is an enquiry in regard to the girls' wilingness to step outside her comfort zone and be a little spontaneous and experimental .
I agree.
 
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