"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Top 12 Mens Wardrobe Apparel Items

Hydrak

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I got some dsquared white shirts (costs >200$) and the chicks go crazy. 6'3, 210 lbs and blue jeans/dsquared-shirt with a watch. I also wear diamond studs earrings which got me a lot of compliments. On the summers, go for shorts/(T)shirt or a polo with a watch, sunglasses and some apt shoes. Every girl will get 'gina tingles when they see you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wiiliamcooper52

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I like you wardrobe apparel collection
I think this is a nice collection
Tailored Suit is best
 

jansien

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
 

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
Citizen watches are easily identifiable as Citizen and are a half notch above Timex. I'm not saying it won't last for years but I am saying it is a bit on the cheap side and she will notice.

If you're not looking to break the bank I'd go with Nixon or Seiko. Nice price, great look and made to the highest quality. Again a watch she will notice and give her nod of approval.

If money is no object look into a Bretling. It'll run you at least $5k but will never go out of style. These watches are commonly unacknowledged when worn but are noticed by absolutely everyone.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asmodeus

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
 

CuddleJunkie

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
I go for that rugged look, I just don't feel comfortable dressing formal unless I'm going to a formal event. It feels so aritifical to me.
 

thatfeel

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
inb4 bigneil makes some condescending comment
 

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Blazers always remind me of PUAs. I've read so many PUA articles or books where there's some goofy picture of some dude in a blazer.

I'm a little fuzzy on the differences between a blazer and a sports jacket, but having watched Curb Your Enthusiasm, I noticed Larry David was always wearing one of these things. Is this a blazer or a sports jacket?



 
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