"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Top 12 Mens Wardrobe Apparel Items

Hydrak

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I got some dsquared white shirts (costs >200$) and the chicks go crazy. 6'3, 210 lbs and blue jeans/dsquared-shirt with a watch. I also wear diamond studs earrings which got me a lot of compliments. On the summers, go for shorts/(T)shirt or a polo with a watch, sunglasses and some apt shoes. Every girl will get 'gina tingles when they see you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wiiliamcooper52

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I like you wardrobe apparel collection
I think this is a nice collection
Tailored Suit is best
 

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
 

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
Citizen watches are easily identifiable as Citizen and are a half notch above Timex. I'm not saying it won't last for years but I am saying it is a bit on the cheap side and she will notice.

If you're not looking to break the bank I'd go with Nixon or Seiko. Nice price, great look and made to the highest quality. Again a watch she will notice and give her nod of approval.

If money is no object look into a Bretling. It'll run you at least $5k but will never go out of style. These watches are commonly unacknowledged when worn but are noticed by absolutely everyone.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
 

CuddleJunkie

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
I go for that rugged look, I just don't feel comfortable dressing formal unless I'm going to a formal event. It feels so aritifical to me.
 

thatfeel

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
inb4 bigneil makes some condescending comment
 

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Blazers always remind me of PUAs. I've read so many PUA articles or books where there's some goofy picture of some dude in a blazer.

I'm a little fuzzy on the differences between a blazer and a sports jacket, but having watched Curb Your Enthusiasm, I noticed Larry David was always wearing one of these things. Is this a blazer or a sports jacket?



 
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