"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Top 12 Mens Wardrobe Apparel Items

Hydrak

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I got some dsquared white shirts (costs >200$) and the chicks go crazy. 6'3, 210 lbs and blue jeans/dsquared-shirt with a watch. I also wear diamond studs earrings which got me a lot of compliments. On the summers, go for shorts/(T)shirt or a polo with a watch, sunglasses and some apt shoes. Every girl will get 'gina tingles when they see you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wiiliamcooper52

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I like you wardrobe apparel collection
I think this is a nice collection
Tailored Suit is best
 

jansien

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
 

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I think the only accessory that a man should only have is a good watch. not those earrings.. because I think watches makes a statement.. and I think a Citizen Watch is the best one to buy without busting the bank.
Citizen watches are easily identifiable as Citizen and are a half notch above Timex. I'm not saying it won't last for years but I am saying it is a bit on the cheap side and she will notice.

If you're not looking to break the bank I'd go with Nixon or Seiko. Nice price, great look and made to the highest quality. Again a watch she will notice and give her nod of approval.

If money is no object look into a Bretling. It'll run you at least $5k but will never go out of style. These watches are commonly unacknowledged when worn but are noticed by absolutely everyone.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asmodeus

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
 

CuddleJunkie

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
I go for that rugged look, I just don't feel comfortable dressing formal unless I'm going to a formal event. It feels so aritifical to me.
 

thatfeel

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Meh... Sure looking professional and all is good for most of y'all white collar work. But I just wear jeans and Tshirts and sometimes overalls for work. Outside of work I rock the bad boy look... Works best for me. Worn and weathered jeans, dark t-shirt, a military or a leather jacket, boots, hair a bit messy. I wear this as it is my style. I am not sophisticated, not fancy, My dark brooding personality suits my style.

Your style should be a reflection of yourself. It is more natural.
inb4 bigneil makes some condescending comment
 

zekko

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Blazers always remind me of PUAs. I've read so many PUA articles or books where there's some goofy picture of some dude in a blazer.

I'm a little fuzzy on the differences between a blazer and a sports jacket, but having watched Curb Your Enthusiasm, I noticed Larry David was always wearing one of these things. Is this a blazer or a sports jacket?



 
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