I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
10 is blank for *no response*.10. I'll call you.
Also valid for females who don't know what the fûck they want out of life.
Is that a text no response, or an "in person" no response? A facial expression could be a factor.10 is blank for *no response*.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have a virgin 23 year old girl telling me "We'll see" right now. We have kissed and went out on a couple dates, let's see how this turns out LOL1. Soon.
2. Maybe.
3. Lol.
4. Ur silly.
5. I was busy.
6. I JUST saw this text.
7. We'll see.
8. I'll let you know.
9. 1 day.
10.
Exactly. If she's not at least initiating and participating fully in conversation, she's not interested. If she's making any sort of lame excuse, for anything, she's really not interested.women aren't stupid , generally any type of dead end response you get from a woman is telling you she isnt interested or at the very most she deems you low enough value to play games
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sounds like she is enjoying her plate statusWhen you receive 10 texts in 2 minutes, in which she is cursing screaming accusing blaming calling you a f*cking egocentrical despicable ashhole, worth less than the sh*t underneath the sole of her shoe, a sign of high or low interest?
Maybe a little later"Hey", "Hi", "Let me see" "Sorry, I've been ____"
lol, that's high interest. Positive or negative emotions.......doesn't matter, its all good!When you receive 10 texts in 2 minutes, in which she is cursing screaming accusing blaming calling you a f*cking egocentrical despicable ashhole, worth less than the sh*t underneath the sole of her shoe, a sign of high or low interest?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.