That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
10 is blank for *no response*.10. I'll call you.
Also valid for females who don't know what the fûck they want out of life.
Is that a text no response, or an "in person" no response? A facial expression could be a factor.10 is blank for *no response*.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I have a virgin 23 year old girl telling me "We'll see" right now. We have kissed and went out on a couple dates, let's see how this turns out LOL1. Soon.
2. Maybe.
3. Lol.
4. Ur silly.
5. I was busy.
6. I JUST saw this text.
7. We'll see.
8. I'll let you know.
9. 1 day.
10.
Exactly. If she's not at least initiating and participating fully in conversation, she's not interested. If she's making any sort of lame excuse, for anything, she's really not interested.women aren't stupid , generally any type of dead end response you get from a woman is telling you she isnt interested or at the very most she deems you low enough value to play games
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sounds like she is enjoying her plate statusWhen you receive 10 texts in 2 minutes, in which she is cursing screaming accusing blaming calling you a f*cking egocentrical despicable ashhole, worth less than the sh*t underneath the sole of her shoe, a sign of high or low interest?
Maybe a little later"Hey", "Hi", "Let me see" "Sorry, I've been ____"
lol, that's high interest. Positive or negative emotions.......doesn't matter, its all good!When you receive 10 texts in 2 minutes, in which she is cursing screaming accusing blaming calling you a f*cking egocentrical despicable ashhole, worth less than the sh*t underneath the sole of her shoe, a sign of high or low interest?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.