"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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too soon for a third date?

tony-montana

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if i went out with a girl on saturday night and it went great and she said she wanted to see me again would it be too soon to make plans for tuesday? this girl is very busy and she told me she basically only has tuesdays (after lunch), fridays (after 6.30pm) and saturdays (night) free. see, im going out on tuesday and its gonna be nice weather for a change and i thought it would be good to meet her in the city and walk around and stuff.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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No. It's not too soon. Seeing her Saturday and then again on Sunday might have been too soon. But yeah Tuesday....why not...
 

runner83

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Social_Leper said:
Depends on how much you like this girl. What's your objective.

Lunch dates have practically zero chance of ending in sex. Just saying...

Agreed.

If you want to s 8====) x her and not just end up as a friend, only meet at night.
 

tony-montana

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lol woah cowboys. im not gonna see her on tuesday for sex. wow, open your mind up a little you horny bastards. i really like her and i know she likes me, not just sexual attraction between us, we have some good sparks happening at the moment from the last date.. holding hands, making out passionately/romantically, her head on my shoulder - that sort of stuff.

so my objective, is not to have sex with her on a tues DAY.. just want to hang out with her and have a few laughs n kisses. am i the only guy on this forum who likes hanging out with girls without just wanting sex? :p
 
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