"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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too soon for a third date?

tony-montana

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if i went out with a girl on saturday night and it went great and she said she wanted to see me again would it be too soon to make plans for tuesday? this girl is very busy and she told me she basically only has tuesdays (after lunch), fridays (after 6.30pm) and saturdays (night) free. see, im going out on tuesday and its gonna be nice weather for a change and i thought it would be good to meet her in the city and walk around and stuff.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mantis Toboggan

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No. It's not too soon. Seeing her Saturday and then again on Sunday might have been too soon. But yeah Tuesday....why not...
 

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Social_Leper said:
Depends on how much you like this girl. What's your objective.

Lunch dates have practically zero chance of ending in sex. Just saying...

Agreed.

If you want to s 8====) x her and not just end up as a friend, only meet at night.
 

tony-montana

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lol woah cowboys. im not gonna see her on tuesday for sex. wow, open your mind up a little you horny bastards. i really like her and i know she likes me, not just sexual attraction between us, we have some good sparks happening at the moment from the last date.. holding hands, making out passionately/romantically, her head on my shoulder - that sort of stuff.

so my objective, is not to have sex with her on a tues DAY.. just want to hang out with her and have a few laughs n kisses. am i the only guy on this forum who likes hanging out with girls without just wanting sex? :p
 
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