"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too scared to break up with gf

Dhoulmagus

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I've tried like three times and it ended up in failure and she is extremely clingy. I can't get another girl either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blind_one

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Dhoulmagus what are you smoking ? I can't get another girl either. Because I don't want to smoke that thing bro. Lets pretend here.
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.

Think about it
 

Dhoulmagus

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blind_one said:
Dhoulmagus what are you smoking ? I can't get another girl either. Because I don't want to smoke that thing bro. Lets pretend here.
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.

Think about it
I've had sex with 10 women including her, but I only met them through drunk encounters. In addition, the gap in between them sucked.
 

foreverAFC

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dude none of us believe you really have a gf, give it a rest already
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Drummer93

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It sounds like you are dependent on her. STOP THAT. Listen, I used to be in your shoes, worried that I will never find anyone better and guess what? I've dated and hooked up with WAY more hotter and better quality women then my exes. Why? cause I was confident with myself and started working on my neediness.

Co-dependence has no value. Be confident and get back on your purpose train. Trust me.
 
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