"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too scared to break up with gf

Dhoulmagus

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I've tried like three times and it ended up in failure and she is extremely clingy. I can't get another girl either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blind_one

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Dhoulmagus what are you smoking ? I can't get another girl either. Because I don't want to smoke that thing bro. Lets pretend here.
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.

Think about it
 

Dhoulmagus

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blind_one said:
Dhoulmagus what are you smoking ? I can't get another girl either. Because I don't want to smoke that thing bro. Lets pretend here.
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.

Think about it
I've had sex with 10 women including her, but I only met them through drunk encounters. In addition, the gap in between them sucked.
 

foreverAFC

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dude none of us believe you really have a gf, give it a rest already
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drummer93

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It sounds like you are dependent on her. STOP THAT. Listen, I used to be in your shoes, worried that I will never find anyone better and guess what? I've dated and hooked up with WAY more hotter and better quality women then my exes. Why? cause I was confident with myself and started working on my neediness.

Co-dependence has no value. Be confident and get back on your purpose train. Trust me.
 
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