Dhoulmagus
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I've tried like three times and it ended up in failure and she is extremely clingy. I can't get another girl either.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Too scared to break up with gf
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tictac
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There is ALWAYS another woman.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Dhoulmagus what are you smoking ? I can't get another girl either. Because I don't want to smoke that thing bro. Lets pretend here.
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.
Think about it
This is your first and only girl you have ever had. That means you can go and meet thousands of women who will like you even more then she did, AND WILL BE MORE VALUABLE TO YOU at the same time. Cut the sh!t go NC and have fun with your like in a way your heart desires.
Think about it
Dhoulmagus
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I've had sex with 10 women including her, but I only met them through drunk encounters. In addition, the gap in between them sucked.blind_one said:
foreverAFC
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dude none of us believe you really have a gf, give it a rest already
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It sounds like you are dependent on her. STOP THAT. Listen, I used to be in your shoes, worried that I will never find anyone better and guess what? I've dated and hooked up with WAY more hotter and better quality women then my exes. Why? cause I was confident with myself and started working on my neediness.
Co-dependence has no value. Be confident and get back on your purpose train. Trust me.
Co-dependence has no value. Be confident and get back on your purpose train. Trust me.