"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Too much trouble?

Dirtheart

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You know, I've been rather interested in the tips I have picked up from this and other similar sites. I have tried one or two out and they seemed to work ok.

However, my focus has been on building my confidence. And now I have come to realise that all these games, chat up lines, approaches etc aren't worth my time. I have started to feel so comfortable with myself lately, and the more confident I feel, the less I can be bothered going to such trouble over a woman. Everything I'm reading now just sounds like too much effort.

I'm popular enough when I'm just being myself and it seems that
ALL of my failures with women have been down to trying too hard or losing sight of my natural behaviour.

Isn't confidence about taking pride in yourself, and don't all these tips and gimmicks just seem like a desperate facade?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slipstreamer83

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I think you need a preparation, but you will only learn by using what you read.

And don´t take women seriously. If you start wondering all the time what should you have done or what you are going to do and you think it is all painful then maybe you won´t get what you want.

Agree with you, I just want to point out that you must learn what you have to do. Some techniques will help IF you don´t overdo.
 

DJ_Dork

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dirtheart, for someone that doesn't contribute much to this site, you pretty much are talking out of your ass.
 
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