"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dirtheart

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You know, I've been rather interested in the tips I have picked up from this and other similar sites. I have tried one or two out and they seemed to work ok.

However, my focus has been on building my confidence. And now I have come to realise that all these games, chat up lines, approaches etc aren't worth my time. I have started to feel so comfortable with myself lately, and the more confident I feel, the less I can be bothered going to such trouble over a woman. Everything I'm reading now just sounds like too much effort.

I'm popular enough when I'm just being myself and it seems that
ALL of my failures with women have been down to trying too hard or losing sight of my natural behaviour.

Isn't confidence about taking pride in yourself, and don't all these tips and gimmicks just seem like a desperate facade?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slipstreamer83

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I think you need a preparation, but you will only learn by using what you read.

And don´t take women seriously. If you start wondering all the time what should you have done or what you are going to do and you think it is all painful then maybe you won´t get what you want.

Agree with you, I just want to point out that you must learn what you have to do. Some techniques will help IF you don´t overdo.
 
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DJ_Dork

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dirtheart, for someone that doesn't contribute much to this site, you pretty much are talking out of your ass.
 
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