I'm assuming everyone here has read the DJB. I just finished reading all the books (Pook, WMS, Introductions to the bible etc), and it only took me a couple days. I realize the bible is actually the entire collection of posts that have made it "bible worthy" and is still currently being expanded. Although I have not read all the posts presently in it, I had a question. Albeit I gave the books my full attention and understood everything, I think I might of read it too fast. Do any of you guys feel that? Like you took too much at once and didn't have time to try out everything? This applies to any worthy information. I was more leisurely with myself because I didn't come in here as a total newbie. Anyways, what I'm basically wondering is if you guys feel that you're not using all the information to the fullest, or even forgeting about some (maybe that's what DJ Boot Camp is for).
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Too much, too fast?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I didn't do the boot camp because I've been trying to get good with girls since I was 15. I just had some AFC tics and sticking points here and there.
I do have to say that if you don't talk to girls for a while, no matter how good you are, you will get rusty. That's why it's important to talk to girls as often as possible.
The boot camp is to get you accustomed to talking to them. You will have to talk to them if you want to really understand what's in the DJB.
I remember when I read it a lot of examples were popping up in my head and I suddenly realised all the AFC mistakes I made in my past. Now I recognise (most of) my mistakes instantly, and they're much less common.
I do have to say that if you don't talk to girls for a while, no matter how good you are, you will get rusty. That's why it's important to talk to girls as often as possible.
The boot camp is to get you accustomed to talking to them. You will have to talk to them if you want to really understand what's in the DJB.
I remember when I read it a lot of examples were popping up in my head and I suddenly realised all the AFC mistakes I made in my past. Now I recognise (most of) my mistakes instantly, and they're much less common.