I'm assuming everyone here has read the DJB. I just finished reading all the books (Pook, WMS, Introductions to the bible etc), and it only took me a couple days. I realize the bible is actually the entire collection of posts that have made it "bible worthy" and is still currently being expanded. Although I have not read all the posts presently in it, I had a question. Albeit I gave the books my full attention and understood everything, I think I might of read it too fast. Do any of you guys feel that? Like you took too much at once and didn't have time to try out everything? This applies to any worthy information. I was more leisurely with myself because I didn't come in here as a total newbie. Anyways, what I'm basically wondering is if you guys feel that you're not using all the information to the fullest, or even forgeting about some (maybe that's what DJ Boot Camp is for).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Too much, too fast?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I didn't do the boot camp because I've been trying to get good with girls since I was 15. I just had some AFC tics and sticking points here and there.
I do have to say that if you don't talk to girls for a while, no matter how good you are, you will get rusty. That's why it's important to talk to girls as often as possible.
The boot camp is to get you accustomed to talking to them. You will have to talk to them if you want to really understand what's in the DJB.
I remember when I read it a lot of examples were popping up in my head and I suddenly realised all the AFC mistakes I made in my past. Now I recognise (most of) my mistakes instantly, and they're much less common.
I do have to say that if you don't talk to girls for a while, no matter how good you are, you will get rusty. That's why it's important to talk to girls as often as possible.
The boot camp is to get you accustomed to talking to them. You will have to talk to them if you want to really understand what's in the DJB.
I remember when I read it a lot of examples were popping up in my head and I suddenly realised all the AFC mistakes I made in my past. Now I recognise (most of) my mistakes instantly, and they're much less common.