"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too much, too fast?

The_Guy

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I'm assuming everyone here has read the DJB. I just finished reading all the books (Pook, WMS, Introductions to the bible etc), and it only took me a couple days. I realize the bible is actually the entire collection of posts that have made it "bible worthy" and is still currently being expanded. Although I have not read all the posts presently in it, I had a question. Albeit I gave the books my full attention and understood everything, I think I might of read it too fast. Do any of you guys feel that? Like you took too much at once and didn't have time to try out everything? This applies to any worthy information. I was more leisurely with myself because I didn't come in here as a total newbie. Anyways, what I'm basically wondering is if you guys feel that you're not using all the information to the fullest, or even forgeting about some (maybe that's what DJ Boot Camp is for).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Also, how do you guys feel the information should be read (what order)? Should you read the books then go through all the "steps" of the bible? Or vice versa?
 

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I didn't do the boot camp because I've been trying to get good with girls since I was 15. I just had some AFC tics and sticking points here and there.

I do have to say that if you don't talk to girls for a while, no matter how good you are, you will get rusty. That's why it's important to talk to girls as often as possible.

The boot camp is to get you accustomed to talking to them. You will have to talk to them if you want to really understand what's in the DJB.

I remember when I read it a lot of examples were popping up in my head and I suddenly realised all the AFC mistakes I made in my past. Now I recognise (most of) my mistakes instantly, and they're much less common.
 
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