Too Much Abundance?

[BaronOfHair]

Realistically through, young people this century have had reason to be demotivated compared to young people of the last century...

We can manufacture "reasons" for just about anything, be it believing that pleisosaurs are swimming around in Loch Ness, or that never wiping nor washing our own assess is somehow eco-friendly

Far be it from me to harsh anyone's mellow, by pointing out that their reasoning is more inept than Mandani's plot to turn contemporary NYC into Bucharest, during the reign of Ceasceu

"But it's all the MAGATs fault, right?"

I do blame them for forever ruining red baseball caps faster than SI tarnished the Swimsuit Edition, by first including Martha Stewart in the line up, then dredging up Megan Fox and Lizzie McGuire, decades after anyone has been fiending for a look at either of those two in the buff

 

[BillyPilgrim]

We can manufacture "reasons" for just about anything, be it believing that pleisosaurs are swimming around in Loch Ness, or that never wiping nor washing our own assess is somehow eco-friendly

Far be it from me to harsh anyone's mellow, by pointing out that their reasoning is more inept than Mandani's plot to turn contemporary NYC into Bucharest, during the reign of Ceasceu

"But it's all the MAGATs fault, right?"

I do blame them for forever ruining red baseball caps faster than SI tarnished the Swimsuit Edition, by first including Martha Stewart in the line up, then dredging up Megan Fox and Lizzie McGuire, decades after anyone has been fiending for a look at either of those two in the buff

Being raised in society focused on survival vs a society focused on decadence is going to have a fairly predictable effect on behavior. No mental contortions necessary, just common sense. Those red ballcaps make great target practice for the birds though.

 

[craider]

The thing to remember is that the world has always been populated with lazy degenerates and women have always been programmed to select the winners out of that cesspool.

They also select the winners out of their own cesspool.

It's no different today. We didn't forget anything, this is just yet another age of decadence where most people become lazy and then ... "outcompeted". Secure the bag and a loyal girl and you're all set. Step 1 is becoming a man and recognizing that rather than being upset with the hoes, you should thank them for doing you a great service and laugh at the ones who filter themselves out after spreading their legs for you and everyone else in the process.

I think the hard part of people in this forum is the latent expectation that women will love you more than you love yourself. Not that there's anything fundamentally different about this cycle of generations and culture than the one say, 100 years ago.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Being raised in society focused on survival vs a society focused on decadence is going to have a fairly predictable effect on behavior

Constructing the belief "I live in a society focused on survival", even though one grew up in a two story home, with access to every streaming service on the market, definitely allows us to FEEL more oppressed and important than we are

 

[Gamisch]

Chelsea Handler says ‘something’s wrong’ with men as she rips modern dating culture

Chelsea Handler blasts modern dating culture, says men won't commit because dating apps give them too many options and too little reason to try.

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Chelsea Handler says ‘something’s wrong’ with men as she rips modern dating culture
Handler, 51, says she's now 'dabbling in different areas' and doesn't like to be 'tethered to one person'


Chelsea Handler is sounding off on modern dating, and, according to the comedian, the problem is men.

During a fiery appearance on the "Howie Mandel Does Stuff" podcast, Handler ripped today’s dating culture, arguing that dating apps and endless options have created a generation unwilling to commit.

"It’s very hard in today’s world to meet straight guys that have their s--- together. … Something’s wrong. I don’t know what’s wrong," Handler said.

The 51-year-old comedian said she originally wanted to help women connect with quality men but quickly realized many successful women are facing the same frustration.

"So, I was initially trying to help straight women meet straight men," she explained. "But I think with dating apps and social media, there’s just so much abundance and so much choice that nobody really feels like they have to … lock it in."

According to Handler, swipe culture has destroyed effort in modern romance.


"They can swipe through 50 women a day," she said. "So they’re not making the effort that people used to make to date."

Handler then praised the women she knows as ambitious and accomplished, while claiming many of them are all running into the same dead end.

Chelsea Handler claims straight men lack commitment due to dating app abundance while embracing casual dating on her own terms after her Jo Koy split. (Christopher Polk/Variety)

"I meet all these amazing, incredible women that are like bada----," she said. "They have their own lives, they have their big jobs and they’re all just like, ‘There’s no men out there.’"

Meanwhile, Handler said she’s embracing casual dating on her own terms.

"I wouldn’t say I’m in a relationship," she admitted. "I would say I’m dabbling in different areas of my life. I don’t like to be tethered to one person."


Chelsea Handler says dating apps and swipe culture have destroyed men's efforts in modern romance, leaving successful women frustrated and single. (Kevin Winter/Getty Images for Critics Choice Association)

Handler’s latest comments come years after her split from fellow comedian Jo Koy, whom she dated for less than a year before their 2022 breakup.

Handler said she considered marrying comedian Jo Koy before realizing they weren't meant for one another. (Frazer Harrison/Getty Images for The Recording Academy)
At the time, Handler said Koy restored her "faith in men, in love [and] in being 100% who I am."

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She doesn't understand that women with "big jobs, ambitious, accomplished, and in their 50's" aren't exactly prime candidates for the dating world. None of the female qualities she listed are things men look for in women. How ridiculous.

Sounds like she is a straight up slut by her comment about "dabbling and not being tethered to one person".

She's talking about SUCCESSFUL men. Not about Good guy Greg who would die for her even tho he is a sub5 looking dude on a good day...I bet she has zero cleu about the experience that Greg has on the apps, which means tons of effort for almsot no results

The top 10 percentile, who can literally get women ranging from age 18 to 55 ..yeah. they will be harder to lock down.

Thats why gents, your main mission gottta be leveling up up UP. THIS is how you want women to be frustrated with you, instead of you being frustrated with them...

 

[Bingo-Player]

I find it funny when older women use this phrase " men who have their sh1t together"

I think what they are referring too Is pretty much a very successful single man in his mid 30's or 40's that is ready to commit to her and only her.


Naturally most of the men who fit this bracket or ( she wants ) are playing the field with younger more attractive women and won't commit

its an amusing dynamic

 

[Bible_Belt]

I find it funny when older women use this phrase " men who have their sh1t together"

I think what they are referring too Is pretty much a very successful single man in his mid 30's or 40's that is ready to commit to her and only her.


Naturally most of the men who fit this bracket or ( she wants ) are playing the field with younger more attractive women and won't commit

its an amusing dynamic

If you is a REAL MAN then you gonna support all my kids!

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think women were kind of sold this idea by social media in the early 00's that their value will only keep going up and they'll have unlimited opportunity to settle down whenever they are finished being

" bas A$$ boss b1tches "

I suspect the reality is now a lot different

 

[BadBoy89]

A man should have his sh-- together for a woman who is not a virgin 15 times over, does not display any wife characteristics, does really like or want kids, will make the man wait for sex until he has earned it, and has to option to take more than half his money and ruin his life if she is not happy in a marriage.

I don't think its worth it.

 

[viking22]

Women routinely reject men who have their **** together i.e. guys with good jobs, in good shape, decent looking etc because they are busy chasing instant chemistry with good looking players. Dating apps enable this behaviour. A lot of women are serial daters routinely rejecting men after the first date because of the illusion of choice that dating apps give them.

Then they complain that women who have their **** together (on paper at least) with good careers etc are single when they reject men with the exact same qualities.

 

[intricate design]

Haha you guys put too much thought into it

Women are so variable and unpredictable that there’s really no clear line of reasoning

Im a bartender so it’s not like im a provider type of millionaire and im honest about that. but women are beyond scatter brained about what guy the are aiming for

they might say they want a lawyer or financial bro but they’ll go home with an unemployable artist any day of the week. plenty of women don’t want to put in actual effort into relationships or they simply don’t even know how to act if they were in a healthy relationship

if you go out to a different event every night and mix it up real good with highly variable events, you’ll meet a woman eventually

they’re out there looking for guys

 

[BaronOfHair]

I suspect the reality is now a lot different

We allow ourselves to be conned by advertising and hype around a great many subjects, sadly... Lots of young fellas similarly get into organized crime believing they'll be just like John Wick, only to recognize: EVERYONE in a crew has to "put in work", and it's only those who are unfit to rise up the ranks who end getting their hands bloody on a regular basis

 

[intricate design]

I think without realizing it, a lot of guys stay in their comfort zones, not necessarily out of laziness but just stuck in a rut

women do the same thing. They’ll attend knitting groups and book clubs (places only women go) and feminist events, and then wonder where are all the hot guys at?

Some women even botch their chances at bars and let’s be real here, bars are like a woman‘s easiest hunting ground ever. It’s literally a place to get drunk and meet people in the simplest way possible