Too Much Abundance?

[The Duke]

Chelsea Handler says ‘something’s wrong’ with men as she rips modern dating culture

Chelsea Handler blasts modern dating culture, says men won't commit because dating apps give them too many options and too little reason to try.

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Chelsea Handler says ‘something’s wrong’ with men as she rips modern dating culture
Handler, 51, says she's now 'dabbling in different areas' and doesn't like to be 'tethered to one person'


Chelsea Handler is sounding off on modern dating, and, according to the comedian, the problem is men.

During a fiery appearance on the "Howie Mandel Does Stuff" podcast, Handler ripped today’s dating culture, arguing that dating apps and endless options have created a generation unwilling to commit.

"It’s very hard in today’s world to meet straight guys that have their s--- together. … Something’s wrong. I don’t know what’s wrong," Handler said.

The 51-year-old comedian said she originally wanted to help women connect with quality men but quickly realized many successful women are facing the same frustration.

"So, I was initially trying to help straight women meet straight men," she explained. "But I think with dating apps and social media, there’s just so much abundance and so much choice that nobody really feels like they have to … lock it in."

According to Handler, swipe culture has destroyed effort in modern romance.


"They can swipe through 50 women a day," she said. "So they’re not making the effort that people used to make to date."

Handler then praised the women she knows as ambitious and accomplished, while claiming many of them are all running into the same dead end.

Chelsea Handler claims straight men lack commitment due to dating app abundance while embracing casual dating on her own terms after her Jo Koy split. (Christopher Polk/Variety)

"I meet all these amazing, incredible women that are like bada----," she said. "They have their own lives, they have their big jobs and they’re all just like, ‘There’s no men out there.’"

Meanwhile, Handler said she’s embracing casual dating on her own terms.

"I wouldn’t say I’m in a relationship," she admitted. "I would say I’m dabbling in different areas of my life. I don’t like to be tethered to one person."


Chelsea Handler says dating apps and swipe culture have destroyed men's efforts in modern romance, leaving successful women frustrated and single. (Kevin Winter/Getty Images for Critics Choice Association)

Handler’s latest comments come years after her split from fellow comedian Jo Koy, whom she dated for less than a year before their 2022 breakup.

Handler said she considered marrying comedian Jo Koy before realizing they weren't meant for one another. (Frazer Harrison/Getty Images for The Recording Academy)
At the time, Handler said Koy restored her "faith in men, in love [and] in being 100% who I am."

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She doesn't understand that women with "big jobs, ambitious, accomplished, and in their 50's" aren't exactly prime candidates for the dating world. None of the female qualities she listed are things men look for in women. How ridiculous.

Sounds like she is a straight up slut by her comment about "dabbling and not being tethered to one person".

 

[craider]

More fundamentally, she doesn't understand that a loving relationship between a man and a woman involves the man being imperfect and the woman supporting and building him up. It's a shared journey.

She keeps hunting for the perfect guy, which makes her relationships transactional by definition. Too stupid and lazy to do the hard work that produces a real bond - a slut as you say.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Are you telling me a post wall woman who is ran through, currently riding the carousel, and has millions of dollars in the bank cant find a high quality man? Who would have known?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She is not wrong about the part regarding most men not having their sh!t together.

The man who does and is relatively "normal" will clean up.

 

[Bokanovsky]

In other news: 14-year-old spoiled brat throws temper tantrum, accuses parents of being @ssholes.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Fat people blame their hormones for being fat.

Broke people blame the government for being broke.

Ugly people blame society for having unattainable beauty standards.

Dumb people blame the educational system.

Politicians who can't get elected blame the voters for not being enlightened enough.

Therapists who can't cure their patients blame their patients for not being cooperative enough.

Fat, tatted up, ran-through post wall ladies blame men for not wanting to commit.

Fist fvcking SoSoauvers blame women for not being traditional.

I do give props to @The Duke for taking the time to post the contents of the article with pictures, compared to the average brain dead fist fcking sosoaver who just copies and pastes the link without any context and expects an organic discussion to ensue.

In fact, the link posting strategy of most brain dead vol-cel sosuavers is pretty much that of the modern human.

Do the bare minimum amount of work required and then expect to be rewarded with fame fortune and sexual intimacy.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Fat people blame their hormones for being fat.

Broke people blame the government for being broke.

Ugly people blame society for having unattainable beauty standards.

Dumb people blame the educational system.

Politicians who can't get elected blame the voters for not being enlightened enough.

Therapists who can't cure their patients blame their patients for not being cooperative enough.

Fat, tatted up, ran-through post wall ladies blame men for not wanting to commit.

Fist fvcking SoSoauvers blame women for not being traditional.

I do give props to @The Duke for taking the time to post the contents of the article with pictures, compared to the average brain dead fist fcking sosoaver who just copies and pastes the link without any context and expects an organic discussion to ensue.

In fact, the link posting strategy of most brain dead vol-cel sosuavers is pretty much that of the modern human.

Do the bare minimum amount of work required and then expect to be rewarded with fame fortune and sexual intimacy.

No links to the offending posts you describe here?

Lolz

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Chelsea is missing the parts where (1) these women overvalue their desirability by being able to shag chads and (2) where the guys they want to commit to them have better options.

 

[BaronOfHair]

"...the problem is men"

My standard response to this one, which was frankly banal all the way back in The 1970s, when it first began being circulated:

"Ya got me, honey!!! EVERYTHING that you're unhappy with is mostly the fault of men as a demographic. The fellas who are digging ditches for less than minimum wage maxxed out your credit cards, then held a gun to your head and forced you to spread your legs for the entire Eastern seaboard, so that no decent guy finds you suitable for even a ONS now"

This particular canard is the Progressive equivalent to PragerU junkies groaning about swarthy complexioned immigrants "stealing" jobs they themselves aren't remotely fit to perform. Trying to reason with dogmatists of any sort is less gainful than persuading raptors to stop cannibalizing their own hatchlings

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

Fat people blame their hormones for being fat.

Broke people blame the government for being broke.

Ugly people blame society for having unattainable beauty standards.

Dumb people blame the educational system.

Politicians who can't get elected blame the voters for not being enlightened enough.

Therapists who can't cure their patients blame their patients for not being cooperative enough.

Fat, tatted up, ran-through post wall ladies blame men for not wanting to commit.

Fist fvcking SoSoauvers blame women for not being traditional.

I do give props to @The Duke for taking the time to post the contents of the article with pictures, compared to the average brain dead fist fcking sosoaver who just copies and pastes the link without any context and expects an organic discussion to ensue.

In fact, the link posting strategy of most brain dead vol-cel sosuavers is pretty much that of the modern human.

Do the bare minimum amount of work required and then expect to be rewarded with fame fortune and sexual intimacy.

Just an observation man but if you haven't yet, you simply MUST do stand up!

 

[intricate design]

The more sex partners a woman has the less bonding capability

also, feminism gave everything to women while simultaneously taking away from men.

there’s 18-20 year old women who transplanted to my town making more money than I ever have. the restaurants and cafes and bars are always packed with 90% females who make tons of money, dress like Taylor Swift, and they don’t know how to cook their own food at home.

what i describe is the playbook of feminism as a weapon to wreck a country. It’s been implemented on purpose. it’s rigged to give women everything while taking away from males. And that’s the way to wreck a country.

in China they are training males to get masters degrees, not women.

 

[craider]

In China they just made it illegal to produce and distribute 50 shades of grey type material lol

Govt literally said that shiz is a mind virus undermining the west and Chinese women need focus on traditional marriages rather than fantasies of prostituting themselves for CEO.

 

[Barrister]

A prime example of how delusional and self-serving most women are. Men may swipe more, then the men women match with waste the man's time. I guess maybe we can agree that "swipe culture has destroyed effort" in modern dating. Just in the exact opposite way that this silly woman believes.

 

[craider]

I see this as a great filter. Swipe culture is revealing how low down many women are and saving you from a costly divorce.

It is also incentivizing women (and men) to improve their mating strategy if they wish to succeed long term.

 

[zekko]

"So, I was initially trying to help straight women meet straight men," she explained. "But I think with dating apps and social media, there’s just so much abundance and so much choice that nobody really feels like they have to … lock it in."

That may be true from the female perspective. The main reason guys won't "lock it in" is the lack of trustworthy partners. Probably because the women are busy running through all these guys on dating apps.

 

[craider]

It's not about the number of suitors. It's about the fact that the woman never commits, never becomes loyal, never gets those good orgasms. It's entirely in her head and her problem to deal with. Focus on finding girls who are willing and able to do that.

 

[intricate design]

In China they just made it illegal to produce and distribute 50 shades of grey type material lol

Govt literally said that shiz is a mind virus undermining the west and Chinese women need focus on traditional marriages rather than fantasies of prostituting themselves for CEO.

China will definitely become the next superpower and they will take over the US.

they’ve been against feminism for a while, decades, saying feminism will destroy America and China will take over

they‘ve been saying it for decades

 

[BaronOfHair]

It is also incentivizing women (and men) to improve their mating strategy if they wish to succeed long term.

It was incredibly foolish for our civilization to have forgotten this around '16 or so, then gotten up on this kick we've been on("The individual SHOULD NOT have to do anything... We need to turn the planet into a utopia, where life is always fair to everyone, 100% of the time")ever since

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It was incredibly foolish for our civilization to have forgotten this around '16 or so, then gotten up on this kick we've been on("The individual SHOULD NOT have to do anything... We need to turn the planet into a utopia, where life is always fair to everyone, 100% of the time")ever since

Agreed, if we don't keep the Epstein Listers in power what's left of morality will quickly fall apart.

Realistically through, young people this century have had reason to be demotivated compared to young people of the last century, and the Epstein Listers were of course eager to pile on the victim-minded Progressivism to further increase apathy and nihilism.

But it's all the MAGATs fault, right?

 

[intricate design]

Really this article seems like a nothingburger. It’s just some woman pointing some observations out. It’s really not even meant to be read by men. It’s a hit piece for women

like how we read about fixing cars or how to build houses. This article is the equivalent of that but for bored women

the hottest women I see walking around are like 18-23 years old and those babes can have any dude they want anywhere in the world. this stuff is a no brainer