"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too many sexual innuendos

JJaySBK

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I know it's kind of fun to use sexual innuendo's when a girl sets herself up for em. However, I think I may have went too far with this one. What do you all say?

Me: nerd
Chick: Y do u love 2 call me names?!..u kno stikks n stones may break my bones but "words" will nvr hurt me:p..lol
Me: My **** across your face will hurt you :D
Chick: Lol..ur disgusting..ahh ur such a guy..n ****y too
Me: Whatever, guys are guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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S.U.R.F.

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loool hahaha alien reference acid/*** in the face haha

who cares what she thinks, thats hilarious
 

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S.U.R.F. said:
loool hahaha alien reference acid/*** in the face haha

who cares what she thinks, thats hilarious

hahahah I was talking about my D**k not my man-juice!

THATS HILARIOUS THOUGH. I didn't even think about that. My man juice being like acid that eats through skin. Jesus. HAHAHAH
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black Dog

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JJaySBK said:
I know it's kind of fun to use sexual innuendo's when a girl sets herself up for em. However, I think I may have went too far with this one. What do you all say?

Me: nerd
Chick: Y do u love 2 call me names?!..u kno stikks n stones may break my bones but "words" will nvr hurt me:p..lol
Me: My **** across your face will hurt you :D
Chick: Lol..ur disgusting..ahh ur such a guy..n ****y too
Me: Whatever, guys are guys

Wtf. I don't see any negative connotation(s?) there so sum dude...stop stressin...I don't think I'd say that to a girl, not any of the ones I'm talking to now. No man its cool your showin yourself off as sexual,,,,,even though that lines pretty corny. But...look at that, look at all those ellipses!!! 0.o I always see "...."s in text as a girl basically fingering herself, then sending the message haha. It's almost like they are trying to communicate to you that they're turned on with the ellipses. "Omg your such a guy and ****y too mmhmm" Damn dude thats probably when she whipped out the vibrator and pulled you up on FaceBook.

I wouldnt worry man.

I'm by no means an expert; take my advice with a huge grain of salt lol. Cool convo---personally, I think textings for fags, but thats just cuz Im not good at it.
 

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That's not innuendo. You literally referred to your **** on her face. Sexual innuendo is when you say something that on the surface sounds relatively harmless, but it could also be construed as referring to something sexual (subtext and all).
 
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