Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TOO MANY GIRLS = problem... input plz

AC/DC

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Yo whats up tards.

So basically I have too many girls. I'm 18.

I was datin this hot 16 year old, but she's really b*tchy, so we broke up. Shes dating other guys but she keeps comin back to me cuz they treat her terribly, cuz she's a punk. I kinda like her but I dono how to cope. Her family loves me, but she's disrespetful n ****.. but a good person, so iono.

I love this 15 year old to death(8.5), but her boyfriend died. She cheated on him with me, but she wants tnothing to do with me cuz she feels bad. We were smokin some shrubs together, and i made out with her friend Angie (7). She didnt see it, but she's trippin anyway.H er friend has a boyfriend, but likes me more cuz I'm tite like that. She's a FREAK, HOLY SH*T, you should have heard the stuff she whispered to me... :) She's 16 and she drives.. had a fat crush on me a few months back.. still does.

I got this 18 year old girl(8), my unicorn. I've liked her for EVER, she's my one-itis, and makes everything better. She's finally starting to feel me. We have an ice cream date tomorrow, I hope everything works out. I havent kissed her or anything, hopefully I can soon. She's really awesome.

Theres this 17 year old that likes me, but she's moving soon(6.5). She loves sex so this could be good, but she's hesitant cuz I had sex with her best friend in November. There's this 20 year old that only wants to screw(8), and then maybe go out later. I dono about that, cuz she's weird. Also, I met this 17 year old yesterday(6.5), she has awesome legs n thighs and looks like Ashlee Simpson, but she's cool and that would totally work. I put in almost no work, and we were makin out within an hour.

Also, I'm broke. My one-itis is the only finacially stable one, but Angie is rich. The rest are broke too...lol

My best choices are either try Angie out, or go slow with my one-itis. I think my oneitis could end up excellent, but Angie is awesome too...

Maybe I'm doing too much? Any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonMEgaHoss

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you know why they call it pokemon cause its about how many your can poke or capture them all! lol but dont worry about money you have the rest of your life to worry about that. Just have fun dude,
 

shydude

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To many girls u say??? U cant handle girls?? then hand em over to me !!!
 

TheNewGuy

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I counted seven girls there. There are also seven days in a week. Coincidence? I think not.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dannowillbookem

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you can never have too many options, as long as you dont get too attached to one of the options.
 

itishe

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AC/DC at the end of the day most of them are too young for you.
 

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AC/DC said:
I love this 15 year old to death(8.5)
I don't know what's worse, the fact you even dared to say love when you only lust, or the fact she's 15.
 

PocketGnome

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itishe said:
AC/DC at the end of the day most of them are too young for you.

Agreed.


You should definately raise the bar up to someone around you age. And, maybe not talk to a few of them for a while. Or, get a public relationship with one of them (The one you want) and that should solve your problems. The hardest part of this I would imagine is picking which one you want the most.
 

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Plus legal issues and crap like that. But all that aside, I think the 7 days/7 girls idea is good. Assign each girl a day lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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