"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TOO MANY GIRLS = problem... input plz

AC/DC

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Yo whats up tards.

So basically I have too many girls. I'm 18.

I was datin this hot 16 year old, but she's really b*tchy, so we broke up. Shes dating other guys but she keeps comin back to me cuz they treat her terribly, cuz she's a punk. I kinda like her but I dono how to cope. Her family loves me, but she's disrespetful n ****.. but a good person, so iono.

I love this 15 year old to death(8.5), but her boyfriend died. She cheated on him with me, but she wants tnothing to do with me cuz she feels bad. We were smokin some shrubs together, and i made out with her friend Angie (7). She didnt see it, but she's trippin anyway.H er friend has a boyfriend, but likes me more cuz I'm tite like that. She's a FREAK, HOLY SH*T, you should have heard the stuff she whispered to me... :) She's 16 and she drives.. had a fat crush on me a few months back.. still does.

I got this 18 year old girl(8), my unicorn. I've liked her for EVER, she's my one-itis, and makes everything better. She's finally starting to feel me. We have an ice cream date tomorrow, I hope everything works out. I havent kissed her or anything, hopefully I can soon. She's really awesome.

Theres this 17 year old that likes me, but she's moving soon(6.5). She loves sex so this could be good, but she's hesitant cuz I had sex with her best friend in November. There's this 20 year old that only wants to screw(8), and then maybe go out later. I dono about that, cuz she's weird. Also, I met this 17 year old yesterday(6.5), she has awesome legs n thighs and looks like Ashlee Simpson, but she's cool and that would totally work. I put in almost no work, and we were makin out within an hour.

Also, I'm broke. My one-itis is the only finacially stable one, but Angie is rich. The rest are broke too...lol

My best choices are either try Angie out, or go slow with my one-itis. I think my oneitis could end up excellent, but Angie is awesome too...

Maybe I'm doing too much? Any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonMEgaHoss

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you know why they call it pokemon cause its about how many your can poke or capture them all! lol but dont worry about money you have the rest of your life to worry about that. Just have fun dude,
 

shydude

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To many girls u say??? U cant handle girls?? then hand em over to me !!!
 

TheNewGuy

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I counted seven girls there. There are also seven days in a week. Coincidence? I think not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem

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you can never have too many options, as long as you dont get too attached to one of the options.
 

itishe

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AC/DC at the end of the day most of them are too young for you.
 

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AC/DC said:
I love this 15 year old to death(8.5)
I don't know what's worse, the fact you even dared to say love when you only lust, or the fact she's 15.
 

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itishe said:
AC/DC at the end of the day most of them are too young for you.

Agreed.


You should definately raise the bar up to someone around you age. And, maybe not talk to a few of them for a while. Or, get a public relationship with one of them (The one you want) and that should solve your problems. The hardest part of this I would imagine is picking which one you want the most.
 

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Plus legal issues and crap like that. But all that aside, I think the 7 days/7 girls idea is good. Assign each girl a day lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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