"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
krasnyiLion
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no one in their right mind will turn some one down , who is " too good" for her or him, think about it..............................see it makes no sence
want to give you a compliment will saying, "thanks but no thanks"
Desdinova
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IMO, this is something that MEN have had programmed into their heads. It's a way they measure themselves up to an attractive woman. The less confident they are, the more they should settle for an ugly b1tch. That's why, when they end up dating a VERY attractive woman, they worship the fvcking ground she walks on.
Kings_royalty
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krasnyiLion said:
I agree with KrasnyiLion, it's a bullsh*t response, or she's finishing for compliments.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WRX_is_like_SEX
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Ofcourse you haven't you clown!Desdinova said:
Its not something they will admit to or speak out loud . . .The issue raised is very subtle, and so will be the signals . .But as ever , there is no black and white answer, as expected . . .And its not necessarily always an isue of looks . .
If there is a vast differential in terms of wit, money, intellect, strength of character, confidence . . Quite simply , inspite of initial attraction, a girl may simply be too intimidated to proceed further . . .Quite simply she may feel that the a genuine bond would be difficult to sustain . .
But again, it will vary from one case to another . .The answer is - "It depends" . . .