Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
krasnyiLion
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no one in their right mind will turn some one down , who is " too good" for her or him, think about it..............................see it makes no sence
want to give you a compliment will saying, "thanks but no thanks"
Desdinova
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IMO, this is something that MEN have had programmed into their heads. It's a way they measure themselves up to an attractive woman. The less confident they are, the more they should settle for an ugly b1tch. That's why, when they end up dating a VERY attractive woman, they worship the fvcking ground she walks on.
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krasnyiLion said:
I agree with KrasnyiLion, it's a bullsh*t response, or she's finishing for compliments.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WRX_is_like_SEX
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Ofcourse you haven't you clown!Desdinova said:
Its not something they will admit to or speak out loud . . .The issue raised is very subtle, and so will be the signals . .But as ever , there is no black and white answer, as expected . . .And its not necessarily always an isue of looks . .
If there is a vast differential in terms of wit, money, intellect, strength of character, confidence . . Quite simply , inspite of initial attraction, a girl may simply be too intimidated to proceed further . . .Quite simply she may feel that the a genuine bond would be difficult to sustain . .
But again, it will vary from one case to another . .The answer is - "It depends" . . .