"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too good to be true?

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RogueWarrior

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So how you do tell if a woman is too good to be true? How can you determine if she's for real or just trying to manipulate you or worse trap you?

This is a pretty interesting, funny, pathetic story:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html

And I had an older friend tell me that he was in a similar situation which takes this out of the Urban Legend realm. :eek:

So, she shows interest and all but is she for real? Sure, you could take the direct approach and ask but then you're risking giving her the impression that you don't trust her worth a damn. Girls test guys all the time, right? So can you test them back?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This story would be a nightmare for those of us that have not had a vasecomy. JoeKerr posted once about testing to see if a women was cheating. Calmly, thoughtfully, sit her down and voice your concerns that you think she may have been cheating on you. If she flips out, starts accusing you and gets defensive, she probably was. If she sincerely tries to prove to you she wasn't, she may have not cheated on you.

My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
 
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Mr.Positive said:
My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
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If you haven't had a vasectomy, but you have been using protection, it comes down to whether or not you trust the b1tch. If you trust her, there is no reason to ask for one. If you do ask for one - you are being an insecure prick. If you don't trust the b1tch, then you should demand one and PRAY it isn't yours. The relationship at that point can go one of two ways

1. It isn't yours - you were justified - she looks like a slut, you walk.

2. It is yours - you didn't trust her but it is your kid - the relationship wasn't going to work anyways because you didn't have trust. Now you've gotta either get an abortion or you're gonna be paying child support. That's life.
 
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Sperm bank + vasectomy is the best way IMO. Control your destiny.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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