"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too good to be true?

RogueWarrior

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So how you do tell if a woman is too good to be true? How can you determine if she's for real or just trying to manipulate you or worse trap you?

This is a pretty interesting, funny, pathetic story:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html

And I had an older friend tell me that he was in a similar situation which takes this out of the Urban Legend realm. :eek:

So, she shows interest and all but is she for real? Sure, you could take the direct approach and ask but then you're risking giving her the impression that you don't trust her worth a damn. Girls test guys all the time, right? So can you test them back?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr.Positive

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This story would be a nightmare for those of us that have not had a vasecomy. JoeKerr posted once about testing to see if a women was cheating. Calmly, thoughtfully, sit her down and voice your concerns that you think she may have been cheating on you. If she flips out, starts accusing you and gets defensive, she probably was. If she sincerely tries to prove to you she wasn't, she may have not cheated on you.

My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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Mr.Positive said:
My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?

If you haven't had a vasectomy, but you have been using protection, it comes down to whether or not you trust the b1tch. If you trust her, there is no reason to ask for one. If you do ask for one - you are being an insecure prick. If you don't trust the b1tch, then you should demand one and PRAY it isn't yours. The relationship at that point can go one of two ways

1. It isn't yours - you were justified - she looks like a slut, you walk.

2. It is yours - you didn't trust her but it is your kid - the relationship wasn't going to work anyways because you didn't have trust. Now you've gotta either get an abortion or you're gonna be paying child support. That's life.
 

bigjohnson

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Sperm bank + vasectomy is the best way IMO. Control your destiny.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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