"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Too good to be true?

RogueWarrior

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So how you do tell if a woman is too good to be true? How can you determine if she's for real or just trying to manipulate you or worse trap you?

This is a pretty interesting, funny, pathetic story:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html

And I had an older friend tell me that he was in a similar situation which takes this out of the Urban Legend realm. :eek:

So, she shows interest and all but is she for real? Sure, you could take the direct approach and ask but then you're risking giving her the impression that you don't trust her worth a damn. Girls test guys all the time, right? So can you test them back?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr.Positive

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This story would be a nightmare for those of us that have not had a vasecomy. JoeKerr posted once about testing to see if a women was cheating. Calmly, thoughtfully, sit her down and voice your concerns that you think she may have been cheating on you. If she flips out, starts accusing you and gets defensive, she probably was. If she sincerely tries to prove to you she wasn't, she may have not cheated on you.

My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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Mr.Positive said:
My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?

If you haven't had a vasectomy, but you have been using protection, it comes down to whether or not you trust the b1tch. If you trust her, there is no reason to ask for one. If you do ask for one - you are being an insecure prick. If you don't trust the b1tch, then you should demand one and PRAY it isn't yours. The relationship at that point can go one of two ways

1. It isn't yours - you were justified - she looks like a slut, you walk.

2. It is yours - you didn't trust her but it is your kid - the relationship wasn't going to work anyways because you didn't have trust. Now you've gotta either get an abortion or you're gonna be paying child support. That's life.
 

bigjohnson

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Sperm bank + vasectomy is the best way IMO. Control your destiny.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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