"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too good to be true?

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RogueWarrior

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So how you do tell if a woman is too good to be true? How can you determine if she's for real or just trying to manipulate you or worse trap you?

This is a pretty interesting, funny, pathetic story:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html

And I had an older friend tell me that he was in a similar situation which takes this out of the Urban Legend realm. :eek:

So, she shows interest and all but is she for real? Sure, you could take the direct approach and ask but then you're risking giving her the impression that you don't trust her worth a damn. Girls test guys all the time, right? So can you test them back?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This story would be a nightmare for those of us that have not had a vasecomy. JoeKerr posted once about testing to see if a women was cheating. Calmly, thoughtfully, sit her down and voice your concerns that you think she may have been cheating on you. If she flips out, starts accusing you and gets defensive, she probably was. If she sincerely tries to prove to you she wasn't, she may have not cheated on you.

My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
 
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Mr.Positive said:
My question is, if any of you were in this situation, would you request a DNA test? If so, how would you without coming across as an insecure prick?
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If you haven't had a vasectomy, but you have been using protection, it comes down to whether or not you trust the b1tch. If you trust her, there is no reason to ask for one. If you do ask for one - you are being an insecure prick. If you don't trust the b1tch, then you should demand one and PRAY it isn't yours. The relationship at that point can go one of two ways

1. It isn't yours - you were justified - she looks like a slut, you walk.

2. It is yours - you didn't trust her but it is your kid - the relationship wasn't going to work anyways because you didn't have trust. Now you've gotta either get an abortion or you're gonna be paying child support. That's life.
 
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Sperm bank + vasectomy is the best way IMO. Control your destiny.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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