"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Too confident???
- Thread starter Guillain
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Ive tried to tone it down a bit, but not too much.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i know that i am but we're not talking about women here or how i handle them. its cuz i live with the principles that if im not sure with what im gonna say, they i should just shut up. lest i wanna wrongly influence some people's lives one way or another.
i dunno. im not sure cuz the word they use means 'full of himself'. im not even like that. i do what i wanna do. i don't say, 'hey! im cute!' like the other guys they label as the same.
i just dont understand them. i try to calm myself down by telling myself that's its just one of two things:
either im too confident or they're just insecure.
id appreciate if anyone could help me in on this too. maybe its cuz i do well in class and i happen to actually READ???
California Love
Master Don Juan
Confidence is not the same as ****iness. You can be sure of yourself, but don't brag and front too much. Also, its important not to put yourself on the pedestal, pretending you're God's gift to women. Just like us, they appreciate something that acts attainable.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.