"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Too confident???
- Thread starter Guillain
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Ive tried to tone it down a bit, but not too much.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i know that i am but we're not talking about women here or how i handle them. its cuz i live with the principles that if im not sure with what im gonna say, they i should just shut up. lest i wanna wrongly influence some people's lives one way or another.
i dunno. im not sure cuz the word they use means 'full of himself'. im not even like that. i do what i wanna do. i don't say, 'hey! im cute!' like the other guys they label as the same.
i just dont understand them. i try to calm myself down by telling myself that's its just one of two things:
either im too confident or they're just insecure.
id appreciate if anyone could help me in on this too. maybe its cuz i do well in class and i happen to actually READ???
California Love
Master Don Juan
Confidence is not the same as ****iness. You can be sure of yourself, but don't brag and front too much. Also, its important not to put yourself on the pedestal, pretending you're God's gift to women. Just like us, they appreciate something that acts attainable.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.