"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Too Busy....? ? ?

Todd Preston

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Lately i've been running into women who have just chaiotic lives.

Kids, 2 jobs and going to school on top of it.

I just hate it when they give me their phone numbers, and i call them to see if i can get them OUT...and they don't have the time.

Huh?

Why did you give me your number then?

Anyone else having this problem...?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sodbuster

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It isn't just the milfs. Many women seem to think I need to call them 60 times and BEG for a scrap of their time. Well, I never begged my ex-wife to stay-I'm not begging them to come over either.I'm busy too, but I can do the laundry a different night[if needed]to free up my schedule.

Sometimes Flexible does not mean desperate.
 

Andy_Dufresne

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Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
 

synergy1

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they would free up their schedule for Tom Brady in about 0.01 seconds.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trader

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Andy_Dufresne said:
Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
cavedweller said:
Todd,

Too busy means "I am not interested in you".
What you both have said is true, but you are missing the point.

The more busy a girl is, the higher the value you have to be, to get a date with her (i.e. Tom Brady like another poster mentioned)

The point is, try to go for girls who have more *free time* this increases the chances of scoring a date with her.
 

BobMo'

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I agree with the OP, there is a trend toward more chaotic lives, especially for women. If we can connect, fine, if not, no big deal.
 
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