"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Too Busy....? ? ?

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Todd Preston

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Lately i've been running into women who have just chaiotic lives.

Kids, 2 jobs and going to school on top of it.

I just hate it when they give me their phone numbers, and i call them to see if i can get them OUT...and they don't have the time.

Huh?

Why did you give me your number then?

Anyone else having this problem...?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sodbuster

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It isn't just the milfs. Many women seem to think I need to call them 60 times and BEG for a scrap of their time. Well, I never begged my ex-wife to stay-I'm not begging them to come over either.I'm busy too, but I can do the laundry a different night[if needed]to free up my schedule.

Sometimes Flexible does not mean desperate.
 
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Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
 
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synergy1

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they would free up their schedule for Tom Brady in about 0.01 seconds.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trader

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Andy_Dufresne said:
Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
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cavedweller said:
Todd,

Too busy means "I am not interested in you".
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What you both have said is true, but you are missing the point.

The more busy a girl is, the higher the value you have to be, to get a date with her (i.e. Tom Brady like another poster mentioned)

The point is, try to go for girls who have more *free time* this increases the chances of scoring a date with her.
 
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I agree with the OP, there is a trend toward more chaotic lives, especially for women. If we can connect, fine, if not, no big deal.
 
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