"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too Busy....? ? ?

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Todd Preston

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Lately i've been running into women who have just chaiotic lives.

Kids, 2 jobs and going to school on top of it.

I just hate it when they give me their phone numbers, and i call them to see if i can get them OUT...and they don't have the time.

Huh?

Why did you give me your number then?

Anyone else having this problem...?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sodbuster

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It isn't just the milfs. Many women seem to think I need to call them 60 times and BEG for a scrap of their time. Well, I never begged my ex-wife to stay-I'm not begging them to come over either.I'm busy too, but I can do the laundry a different night[if needed]to free up my schedule.

Sometimes Flexible does not mean desperate.
 
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Andy_Dufresne

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Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
 
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synergy1

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they would free up their schedule for Tom Brady in about 0.01 seconds.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trader

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Andy_Dufresne said:
Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
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cavedweller said:
Todd,

Too busy means "I am not interested in you".
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What you both have said is true, but you are missing the point.

The more busy a girl is, the higher the value you have to be, to get a date with her (i.e. Tom Brady like another poster mentioned)

The point is, try to go for girls who have more *free time* this increases the chances of scoring a date with her.
 
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I agree with the OP, there is a trend toward more chaotic lives, especially for women. If we can connect, fine, if not, no big deal.
 
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