"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too Busy....? ? ?

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Todd Preston

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Lately i've been running into women who have just chaiotic lives.

Kids, 2 jobs and going to school on top of it.

I just hate it when they give me their phone numbers, and i call them to see if i can get them OUT...and they don't have the time.

Huh?

Why did you give me your number then?

Anyone else having this problem...?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sodbuster

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It isn't just the milfs. Many women seem to think I need to call them 60 times and BEG for a scrap of their time. Well, I never begged my ex-wife to stay-I'm not begging them to come over either.I'm busy too, but I can do the laundry a different night[if needed]to free up my schedule.

Sometimes Flexible does not mean desperate.
 
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Andy_Dufresne

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Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
 
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synergy1

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they would free up their schedule for Tom Brady in about 0.01 seconds.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Andy_Dufresne said:
Get more numbers. Eventually you will hit.

If a woman is interested enough she will MAKE time for you even though she has six kids and three jobs.
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cavedweller said:
Todd,

Too busy means "I am not interested in you".
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What you both have said is true, but you are missing the point.

The more busy a girl is, the higher the value you have to be, to get a date with her (i.e. Tom Brady like another poster mentioned)

The point is, try to go for girls who have more *free time* this increases the chances of scoring a date with her.
 
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I agree with the OP, there is a trend toward more chaotic lives, especially for women. If we can connect, fine, if not, no big deal.
 
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