"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too agressive?

SomethingClever

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I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kupid Diggs

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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
You just answered your own question. Do what works for you.

There is more than one way to skin a cat...
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
You could be too agressive. Sometimes you may need to tone it down. Though, I would just take a step back and look at yourself. Has your game been falling, staying the same, or improving... Other times it just the woman who doesnt like the way you advance on her.

Look back at yourself and think if you are or not. If you dont feel you are then, keep doing how you do. But, keep in mind that at times.. you could go over board.
 

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To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trader said:
To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck

Agreed.
 

SomethingClever

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Thanks for all the input.
 

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Don't listen to other dudes who are in worse shape than you are, what the hell do they know anyway? They couldn't give you good advice even if they wanted to, and truth is most of them are probably hoping you **** up so they aren't alone in the not gettin any club lol
 
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