"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too agressive?

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I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
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You just answered your own question. Do what works for you.

There is more than one way to skin a cat...
 
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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
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You could be too agressive. Sometimes you may need to tone it down. Though, I would just take a step back and look at yourself. Has your game been falling, staying the same, or improving... Other times it just the woman who doesnt like the way you advance on her.

Look back at yourself and think if you are or not. If you dont feel you are then, keep doing how you do. But, keep in mind that at times.. you could go over board.
 
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To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck
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Agreed.
 
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Thanks for all the input.
 
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Don't listen to other dudes who are in worse shape than you are, what the hell do they know anyway? They couldn't give you good advice even if they wanted to, and truth is most of them are probably hoping you **** up so they aren't alone in the not gettin any club lol
 
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