"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too agressive?

SomethingClever

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I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kupid Diggs

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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
You just answered your own question. Do what works for you.

There is more than one way to skin a cat...
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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SomethingClever said:
I've always ran my game the same way, ever since i learned the RIGHT way to run it. I've also always gotten positive results. Sure i might've had some set backs, but you're never supposed to think negative.

That being said, as of late, I have been receiving negative feedback from some of my friends, saying that i'm TOO agressive. I don't see it. Is it possible they're right? This one guy said i was "plowing" when we were sarging. I didn't see it. I was at a party last friday and running girls left and right, but none of them were going. My friends said i was going too hard. But with the numbers game i played at that party, it was mathematically impossible for me to lose. So now i'm getting advice from people who don't even understand the game as much as i do.

So, is there such a thing as too agressive? Are my "friends" right?
You could be too agressive. Sometimes you may need to tone it down. Though, I would just take a step back and look at yourself. Has your game been falling, staying the same, or improving... Other times it just the woman who doesnt like the way you advance on her.

Look back at yourself and think if you are or not. If you dont feel you are then, keep doing how you do. But, keep in mind that at times.. you could go over board.
 

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To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trader said:
To the OP: the fact that you are approaching so many girls is fine. But what could make you too *aggressive* is if you give off that vibe of: 'I'm trying to pick up girls.'

Just make sure you try to be *social* instead of 'I want to game girls.'

Good luck

Agreed.
 

SomethingClever

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Thanks for all the input.
 

everywomanshero

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Don't listen to other dudes who are in worse shape than you are, what the hell do they know anyway? They couldn't give you good advice even if they wanted to, and truth is most of them are probably hoping you **** up so they aren't alone in the not gettin any club lol
 
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