"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Tons of college girls

R

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
Guys I know DJing girls should be the same.

But I want to know the following:

How can I erase the feeling that I'm too old for many of these college girls?

I'm 31 and don't necessarily look young. I workout alot and feel young but do have a receding hairline.

All I need is help in not feeling like I'm too old.

Any tips?

It is primarily a mental thing I know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

J

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
Whats your image? What do you wear?

Check out christian from nip/tuck. That dude is straight pimp for an older guy.
 
A

allan976

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2004
Messages
183
Reaction score
0
ALL OR NOTHING BABY

I started losing in my mid twenties. I started taking an interest in rogaine and the hair club for men, the bosley club, etc. ordered the brochures, watched the infomercials (seriously, man). I started getting embarrassed about my hair loss. And this is for someone who used to take great pride in my long flowing hair.

One time however, I tried cutting my own hair and botched it pretty badly. I walked into a barber shop not knowing what to do, but saw a guy who had just finished up with a military cut; the stylist said 'how would you like it?' 'Like that guy, cut it short.' After that, women were RAVING about my new look! For DJ ideologues who claim 'looks don't matter, or don't matter as much confidence,' I beg to differ. There is no doubt your physique, face, hairdo, and clothes all make a massive difference. I quickly learned that there was a strong correlation between woman's interest level and the length of my hair (the shorter the better). I was scared to shave, but now I'm shaving just about every day. The only thing that I'm worried about is that the look will become too commonplace, and start to become 'old hat.'

I say try it, and report back!
 
R

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
I'm feeling better today. I got alot of interest from a young girl at work.

As long as I can keep my mind in check I'll be ok.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top