"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Tons of college girls

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
Guys I know DJing girls should be the same.

But I want to know the following:

How can I erase the feeling that I'm too old for many of these college girls?

I'm 31 and don't necessarily look young. I workout alot and feel young but do have a receding hairline.

All I need is help in not feeling like I'm too old.

Any tips?

It is primarily a mental thing I know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
Whats your image? What do you wear?

Check out christian from nip/tuck. That dude is straight pimp for an older guy.
 

allan976

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2004
Messages
183
Reaction score
0
ALL OR NOTHING BABY

I started losing in my mid twenties. I started taking an interest in rogaine and the hair club for men, the bosley club, etc. ordered the brochures, watched the infomercials (seriously, man). I started getting embarrassed about my hair loss. And this is for someone who used to take great pride in my long flowing hair.

One time however, I tried cutting my own hair and botched it pretty badly. I walked into a barber shop not knowing what to do, but saw a guy who had just finished up with a military cut; the stylist said 'how would you like it?' 'Like that guy, cut it short.' After that, women were RAVING about my new look! For DJ ideologues who claim 'looks don't matter, or don't matter as much confidence,' I beg to differ. There is no doubt your physique, face, hairdo, and clothes all make a massive difference. I quickly learned that there was a strong correlation between woman's interest level and the length of my hair (the shorter the better). I was scared to shave, but now I'm shaving just about every day. The only thing that I'm worried about is that the look will become too commonplace, and start to become 'old hat.'

I say try it, and report back!
 

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
I'm feeling better today. I got alot of interest from a young girl at work.

As long as I can keep my mind in check I'll be ok.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top