“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tons of college girls

Ricky

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Guys I know DJing girls should be the same.

But I want to know the following:

How can I erase the feeling that I'm too old for many of these college girls?

I'm 31 and don't necessarily look young. I workout alot and feel young but do have a receding hairline.

All I need is help in not feeling like I'm too old.

Any tips?

It is primarily a mental thing I know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats your image? What do you wear?

Check out christian from nip/tuck. That dude is straight pimp for an older guy.
 

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ALL OR NOTHING BABY

I started losing in my mid twenties. I started taking an interest in rogaine and the hair club for men, the bosley club, etc. ordered the brochures, watched the infomercials (seriously, man). I started getting embarrassed about my hair loss. And this is for someone who used to take great pride in my long flowing hair.

One time however, I tried cutting my own hair and botched it pretty badly. I walked into a barber shop not knowing what to do, but saw a guy who had just finished up with a military cut; the stylist said 'how would you like it?' 'Like that guy, cut it short.' After that, women were RAVING about my new look! For DJ ideologues who claim 'looks don't matter, or don't matter as much confidence,' I beg to differ. There is no doubt your physique, face, hairdo, and clothes all make a massive difference. I quickly learned that there was a strong correlation between woman's interest level and the length of my hair (the shorter the better). I was scared to shave, but now I'm shaving just about every day. The only thing that I'm worried about is that the look will become too commonplace, and start to become 'old hat.'

I say try it, and report back!
 

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I'm feeling better today. I got alot of interest from a young girl at work.

As long as I can keep my mind in check I'll be ok.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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