"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tongue question?

Toushi

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Ok, this is going to sound like a troll, and some of you will accuse me of being one, but I won't care...

So, I've been evolving with girls, and realized that I'm really close to get my first kiss. Ok, it's natural and I'm not worried (just a bit). What I'm worried about, it's french kissing... You know, when you use the tongue.

So, you people know that under our tongue, is kinda this piece of flesh holding it, right? So, mine is a bit different from other people. It retains my tongue. I was born this way, and the doctors said it won't affect my way of speaking, so they didn't cut it. I guess they didn't worried about kissing... Suckers.

So, my tongue can't "go out" as normal people. It's like it's smaller! Don't that sucks? You know when you stick out your tongue to someone you're making fun of? When I do that, my tongue can barely get out of my mouth.

So, I don't know if this will affect my kissing, but I'm worried it will.

If you think this is stupid and I'm trolling, don't post. It isn't easy to say something like this. I know it's a stupid thing, but it's true. Bleh. :down:

Any advise/opinion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cash

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If you don't know, there's only one way to find out... Kiss a girl.

If you still have problems, see your doc.
 

SamePendo

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AdviCe.. nope, but encouragement, yes.

99% of us guys may love kissing or having sex or whatever, but suck at it. Chances are, even if it's your first kiss, you will be better than most guys who have kissed 30x more than you.
 

flippinfreak

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Toushi, like a kid with downs right?

Yeah, those guys only have to worry about saying something stupid.

I've got a friend who's a DJ at a radio show and he's got downs.

Down right cool mofo, stupid as hell, but he's got no fear...

He can stick his tongue out just past his teeth! He's got no problems with the girls, I think they enjoy being the ones who try to make him choke on their tongue.
 

penkitten

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sometimes less is more.
i would rather have a little tongue action compared to someone trying to touch the back of my throat with their tongue.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DasaniWater

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My gf is the same way! I can barely kiss her.. i think its cute though. I have to do all the work... she hates getting her toung sucked too. WHY?!!?! Its my favorite thing. Has anyone ever seen Face off?? Where he asks the girl to "suck his toung" on the air plane. I thought it was a good thing to do. but she hates it.. :cuss: :confused:
 
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